Solving disputes

Growing up as a child made me come to terms with the fact that there will always be disputes among friends, schoolmates, family members, lovers, and what have you.

Growing up as a child as made me come to terms with the fact that, they will always be disputes amidst friends, schoolmates, family members, lovers and what have you.

Some dispute more complex than others, some more simpler to solve amidst the parties while others require third-party 'settlers'. So this brings me to the reason of this post.

I think people who are selected to solve disputes and conflicts should

a) Not be biased,
b) Listen to both parties (Not in the absence of any member of the party)
c) Listen carefully
d) Re-listen and ask questions
e) Not give instant judgement or conclusions
f) Ask God for directions and wait to hear from God to decide on what to do (It could be immediately)

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Originally published on 1/10/2017 at 10:09 PM.